Would like to have a first experence could be as simple as rigorous undressing, however up for a journey. I am not sure which way I will go yet, I feel it will be sub but would probably enjoy both…does thst kind of person exist in these spheres? Anyway I am young, slim and toned and fit and have an open mind ..Would love to get high on coffee and chocolate cake and then slip off. (any of the CC&K Ms’s would be very welcome, I would buy a plug if, only I was offered a demo, I very nearly was the other day)

No, I do not switch.. don’t trust anyone else enough to give up my control..

I’m quite assertive and outgoing “in real life” so would find it hard to rein in.

Mmmm that felt like i was being told off and it wasn’t compleatly unsatisfying, if you had used caps I would have PM’ed a proposition to you!

I havent the confidence to switch – although I do sometimes find the idea of being in control very exciting, I would want more experience before venturing outside the safety of submission.

cakeandeatit - 19 August 2008 03:28 PM

Mmmm that felt like i was being told off and it wasn’t compleatly unsatisfying, if you had used caps I would have PM’ed a proposition to you!

I’ll do a damn sight more than tell you off, young man!!!

<reaches for her crop>

I tried subbing once, many years ago and long before I got into domming..

Not sure why I did it… curiosity, I suppose, although I’d never considered anything like it before.

Domming was easier.. men kept asking me to dominate them, and I wondered what it was about me that made them ask.. then one day, I met a sub on AFF/ALT and he showed me the ropes (so to speak!)

It felt a lot more real..

I started off as a sub and enjoyed the surrender to someone elses whim – not knowing what was going to happen next. As time went by I found that I became more interested in the dom side and found it difficult to find genuine doms interested in a male slave ( there seem to be alot more subs than doms). Eventually I tried being a dom with a male slave and found that I really enjoyed the control. I know consider myself a switch but havn’t tried the sub role for a few years.

I would definitely show you where to put that butt plug!!!

I switch, but then again I’m quite vanilla, so neither being a dom or a sub is that serious. I’ll be what my girlfriend wants me to be and so I switch according to the mood!

I used to be a bottom but then I discovered about ten years ago that topping turns me on too – I always thought it would with the right person. But I still like being a bottom sometimes. Yep, I’m a genuine dyed-in-the-wool switch :)